“My favorite person in the whole world is my grandmother. She always has time for me”
-5-year old on Art Linkletter show
During this virus crisis, many of us have more time to spend at home with our family. This unique situation can provide opportunities to strengthen relationships and make good memories. Most of us can recall a special memory from our childhood that we treasure. For me, the first one that comes to mind is when I was 4. Like most 4-year olds, I lived in a world of 95% creativity, and spent my time observing, trying, falling, and learning.
One day I decided to play with a piece of chalk. I had just learned how to draw arrows, and I began doing so on each sidewalk square. It was fun as I was experimenting with my new-found skill. I just kept going with no idea of getting lost or hurt. After doing 20 squares or so, I paused to look at my surroundings. I was lost! I had no idea where I was. Just as I was about to panic, round the corner came my 6’3″ dad, smiling from ear to ear. Dad was there! I asked him how he found me. I should have figured it out. He followed the arrows.
As you might guess, this story is packed with meaning for me. Dad was looking out for me and showed me once again that he was here to help me grow. I realize now that this moment could have gone much differently. Instead of taking the loving and smiling approach, what if he had yelled at me or scolded me for leaving the yard or crossing the street? I am sure we talked about that later, but all I recall is him being there and looking out for me. What special memories can you create with your loved ones in this extra time? There is one to be had every day…even if it is only a tiny one. It may be huge to someone else.
