Posted: August 21, 2019 | Categories: Leadership, Management, Team Building

I’ve always been told that repetition is one of the ways we learn.  If we are playing a musical instrument or learning a new skill, repetition makes sense.  Then there are other times when repetition does not work.  Have you ever found yourself having the same conversation over and over again with someone you are trying to correct or re-direct?  I’ll bet you have.  How do we break the cycle and solve the problem?  I will illustrate with a personal example:

In the summer of 1974, I was the manager of a hotel in a Chicago suburb.  My boss lived in Denver, and Mr. V would come in to check up on things about every six weeks.  He always had a list of things he wanted me to work on.  Some things I enjoyed, some I did not.  As time went on, it seemed like the stuff I didn’t like doing never got done.  Mr V. and I kept having the same conversation.  Then, one day, he broke the pattern.  I’ll never forget what he said, “Steve, what can I do to get you going on this?”  Whoa!  I’m tuned in.  The time for excuses was over.  I needed to execute.  I did, and we enjoyed a long working relationships that lasted for another 10 years.  He also promoted me to manage some of his other properties.

What happened in this conversation?  Mr. V shifted gears.  Before, he was focusing on the specific situation of what didn’t get done.  In our capstone conversation, he instead called attention to the “pattern” I had established, and let me know that this pattern needed to change…immediately!

Do you have a team member who just can’t seem to “get with the program”?  Once they established an unproductive pattern, address the pattern, not the incident.  Throw it right back to him or her like Mr. V did.  It will be tough.  We also know that the best coaches and teachers in our lives always challenged us.  We can do the same.

Posted: August 1, 2019 | Categories: Management, Team Building

In my experience of coaching managers and leaders, I have found the most successful ones know how to make good decisions.  Whenever possible, when facing a tough decision, they take the time to gather the facts, weigh them, and act based on their knowledge and instincts.  I was reminded of this today when talking to my 32-year-old son, David.  He and his wife, Nicole recently signed up to be a Foster Parent for dogs.  Soon after they signed up, they received a couple irresistible pups from the agency.  They were Beagle mix, male and female, and both from the same litter

From the moment that David and Nicole saw them, they could see that these two pups were inseparable.  They constantly have to be near each other, and when one is out of the room, the other panics.  David and Nicole declared, “We will not split up these dogs.  They would be devastated if we did.  We will hold out until we find someone who wants to take both of them.  It is a package deal”.  This made sense to Joyce and I.

Today David talked to a couple that was eager to adopt both dogs.  With great excitement, David called the agency and announced the good news.  When the person at the agency found out the dogs were going to stay together, her enthusiasm dropped.  She said, “We have found that it is not a good idea to let people adopt two from the same litter.”  She explained why, and my crestfallen son did some further research.  It is not a good idea to adopt siblings.  They are so into each other, they tend not to pay any attention to the owner.  That makes them difficult to train and bond with.  They only want to be next to their sibling.  We were all sad, but wiser.  I was reminded again of how powerful the “heart” is in making decisions, and how we always have to get the “head” involved too!

Posted: February 21, 2019 | Categories: Leadership, Management

In the summer of 1998, I was suddenly thrust into the role of managing a little league team consisting of kids ages 9 & 10.  If I hadn’t accepted the job, my son’s team would have been broken up.  I said yes.

As we began with the season, I held a meeting with the parents.  I said, “I don’t know much about baseball, but the assistant coaches that surround me do.  I do know a little about leadership.  Some say that it is not whether you win or lose, you just need to have fun.  Others say winning is everything.  I’ve got some good news for you…we are going to have fun and we are going to win!”

As I began my coaching, I kept clearly in mind the “secret sauce” that makes a winning team:  Building Structural Tension.  Structural tension means that each team member is driven by supporting their fellow team member, not the boss.  That means that team members encourage one another and don’t put each other down.  It also means that they trust and respect each other enough to hold each other accountable.  If someone in the outfield is daydreaming, it is fair game to say, “He Steve.  Wake up.”

In 2016 the Chicago Cubs won the World Series.  They had structural tension.  Recently, Athletic magazine wrote an article about David Ross, the Cubs back-up catcher that year.  He was a seasoned pro enjoying his final year in the Majors.  He would strongly encourage his teammates, and he also would comment when they were falling in to bad habits.  They loved him!  He knew that top-performing teams have a pact to keep each other on task.

Now back to my little league baseball team:  We finished the season 15-3!

Posted: January 28, 2019 | Categories: Leadership, Management, Team Building

Last month I read a headline that made me sad and joyous at the same time.  The headline read, “Maverick Founder of Southwest Airlines dies at 87”. Herb Kelleher was a true maverick, and that is an understatement.

Years ago I was on a Southwest flight from Phoenix to Chicago.  As the flight began, the flight attendant took to the microphone.  She said, “Welcome aboard.  We will be serving beverages on this flight, and soon our servers will be coming by.  At this time, I want everyone to open up their in-flight magazine and turn to page #29.  Got it?  OK, now go to the right column.  There you will see listed all the beverages we offer.  Now I would like you to go through this list, and choose what beverage you would like.  Is everybody with me?  Good.  And remember, we are completely out of, What do you have?”

That’s Southwest.  Who else would have the nerve?  As I reflected on that moment, I realized that they were following in true order of their values.  Here are their top three in order:

1. Have fun.
2. Love your employees
3. Love your customers.

So how come we customers ended up in third place?  Herb Kelleher knew that having fun and treating your people right was the way to have a loyal following.  Beyond that, he did have a quirky priority:  He looked for people who had strong personalities.  The whiskey-drinking, cigarette-smoking fellow just couldn’t settle for his folks saying “Have a nice day” in monotone.  The Southwest Airlines Crew:  They may excite you, they may infuriate you, but they will never bore you.  One more thing:  In the 20 years he was at the helm, Southwest made a profit every year, and they continue to do so.  Are you a maverick?

Posted: October 24, 2018 | Categories: Management

Last Monday a major milestone occurred:  Sears filed for Chapter 11.  While that may not be a striking event for those in their 30’s and 40’s, for us baby-boomers, it was like losing a part of our history.

Growing up in a small down in the 50’s and 60’s, Sears was the place where dreams began.  It all started with the gigantic “Wish Book” catalogue that was delivered to our house once a year.  It was thicker than “War and Peace”, and in it was everything from clothing to sports to go-carts and motorcycles.  At one time Sears even sold houses and cars.  (That’s right…check it out)

Then came Sam Walton from his small town in Bentonville, Arkansas.  He and his Walmart stores took over America, and they pushed Sears aside to become #1.  In doing so, they also created the demise of many small, independent downtown shops.

Now Walmart is being challenged by Amazon, and the race is on.  Walmart is increasing their online shopping.  Here is what puzzles me the most:  Why isn’t Sears the Amazon.com?  They had almost all the mail order and catalogue business.  That didn’t happen for a lot or reasons.  Let’s summarize by listing the five stages of “How the Mighty Fall” as related by author Jim Collins:

1. Hubris Born of Success
2. Undisciplined pursuit of more
3. Denial of risk and peril
4. Grasping for salvation
5. Capitulation to irrelevance or death.

These are the traps.  If we want to get great and stay great like Apple and Disney, we can’t ignore these fundamentals.