A must for a good first impression

Posted: July 21, 2021 | Categories: Customer service, Leadership, Networking, Sales

Here is a situation I’ll bet we have all been in:  We are at a party or social event and we meet someone.  We say our name.  They say theirs.  We begin a conversation.  A few seconds later we find ourselves in a minor panic because we have forgotten their name.  We want to personalize the interaction by using their name.  We can’t because we forgot it.   Now what?  We have two options:  First, we can avoid calling them by name since we can’t remember it.  If we do this, we run the risk of making the conversation stiff.  Our second option is to ask the other person, “What was your name again?”  This means we are admitting we weren’t listening.  How does that work for making a good 1st impression?

It is an old cliche worth repeating, “There is no second chance to make a good first impression”.  First impressions can easily make the difference in a sale.  I once remember a top-producing salesperson say, “In most cases, I can predict the probability of the sale in the first five minutes.”  Do you think learning and using a person’s name could be important in those first few minutes?  It sure is!  What can we do to helpus remember names better when being introduced or introducing ourselves?  Here are some thoughts:

First, slow down when you first hear a name.  Pretend like you are driving through a school zone.  If you did not hear the name clearly, ask them to repeat it.  The other person won’t be irritated.  Their name is important to them, and they want people to get it right.  With this added effort and focus, you will remember more names and help avoid having to admit you didn’t pay attention.  And don’t try to be clever!  Once I forgot a name, and I asked, “How do you spell your name?”  There was a long pause and she replied, “SMITH“.  Ouch! That exchange did not go so well.

Slow down, pay attention, remember names, and get off on the right foot.

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