Enrico Caruso, Charles Dickens, and H.G. Wells all had something in common: In addition to becoming world famous and making history, all three had the experience of receiving some encouragement at a moment when they were near self-destruction. In each case, someone took a few minutes to stop and point out their gifts and affirm their value.
If we are in there and out there in this world, we likely have the same opportunity – to stop and take the time to sincerely recognize someone for a great performance or good work.
Last week my wife and I were in a church service and a musical number was performed by a young lady named Celia. She sang and played the violin during the song and both elements were virtuoso. After the service we stayed back and walked up to Celia to let her know what a wonderful job she did and how gifted she was. Celia was with her Dad at the time, and the smiles on their faces were heartwarming.
I am not sure if our comments made a difference for her. For us, it felt so right to take the time to say thank you and acknowledge someone with such a special talent.
Whether it be Caruso, Dickens, Wells, or Celia, taking the time to genuinely acknowledge and appreciate someone’s special attributes can build up others. We all likely have the opportunity to do this each day. Be a people builder!
