Two magic words that are still magic

Posted: April 10, 2023 | Categories: Customer service, Leadership, Sales

“Good manners are made up of petty sacrifices”

–Ralph Waldo Emerson

I remembering once hearing of a conversation between a worldwide traveler and person who was just starting to travel.  The neophyte was going for a tour of Europe, and he asked the season traveler for his best advice.  The reply was not complex.  The travel pro said, “Just learn how to say “thank you” in every language you will encounter, and make sure to always say thank you.”  Weeks later, the rookie traveler returned and said to the pro, “That was the best travel advice I have every received!”  It reminds me of  what we all learned in kindergarten:   Say the magic words of “please” and “thank you”.

Last Thursday my wife and I decided to treat ourselves to dinner.  We went to a local fast-casual restaurant that belonged to a chain with a reputation of friendly service.  The person took our order.  His face was expressionless.  We paid up and shortly after he gave us our sandwiches with a “Here you go”.  I was waiting for a “thank-you”, and there was silence.  We quietly walked away with our food. It then began to occur to me that “please” and “thank you” are going out of fashion.  That is sad.  As customers, we choose to spend our money at certain places, and when we do, we help provide the capability of a business to issue paychecks.  Thank you, anyone?

I also realized that recently I find myself saying “thank you” to someone who should be thanking me.  It gets worse.  When I do say thank you, I often hear, “No problem”.  Really?  I never thought of myself as a problem.  I thought of myself as a customer.

Before the phrase thank you becomes extinct, I encourage you all to use this phrase wherever you go.  Did someone do something nice for you today?  Thank them.  And thank you for ready this blog!

 

 

 

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