Positive thinking means positive discipline

Posted: April 1, 2021 | Categories: Self-Improvement, Time management

A couple days ago I wrote about the importance of starting our day with a “full tank”, and having a clear vision of where we are going.  A short while after writing that, another thought occurred to me:  What about those people I know who find it very difficult to get a vision or sense of direction?  Instead, these folk’s minds get flooded with all their problems, and their thoughts become diffuse and non-productive.  Here’s the good news:  Even if you struggle with developing a vision or exciting sense of direction, you can learn to be good at it.  Here are the steps in the process.

1. Frequency:  There are thoughts that pop into our minds if we let them.  We may picture ourselves as an excellent piano player on stage, or running a marathon.  Whatever the thought is, it came to us for a reason.  Capture it!
2. Feed the thought (Duration):  Our next goal is to let this mini vision play in our minds.  Give it more “screen time”.
3. Put it in vivid color:  Now that we are “playing the movie”, make it colorful and alive so that it is more vivid in our thoughts.
4. Attach emotion:  Now that we have this vivid “movie” playing in our mind, let’s let our emotions kick in so that we soon find our wanting that future state badly. (Watch movie “Pursuit of Happiness”)

All highly successful people do the above.  They carry with them a future state they want to be in, and they do something every day to work towards it.  When you get a vision, seize it, nurture it, and keep “playing the movie”.  You will know where you are going and will be excited about getting there.  To conclude, read this classic poem by Langston Hughes:

What happens to a dream deferred?
Does it dry  up
Like a raisin in the sun?
Does it stink like rotten meat?
Or crust and sugar over–
like a syrupy sweet?
Maybe it just sags
like a heavy load
Or does it explode?

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